There’s nothing wrong
to be private of course to share things or information that will make you
comfortable but secrecy is very far from privacy, privacy is simply limiting
yourselves through being more open about the detail you shared publicly (to
those people you do not know) but keeping things hidden from those who has a bond
of mutual affection with you which we so-called friends and associates is an act of secrecy.
Hiding your
relationship purposefully to give other people some insight about your existing
relationship is a form of deception, keeping your relationship secret to acquit
yourself from critiques. Hanging out with your ex, or a friend of the opposite
sex secretly and having emotional attachment (counseling text, chatting,
video calls) to someone other than your consort is defined as cheating, by which
communication is continual to feed your needs for intimacy and comfort. If
you don’t want temptation to fallow you then don’t act as if you’re interested
with it. But when sex is getting involve “it is, in fact” infidelity.
Discovering that your
partner is cheating can be devastating, it can lead to Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) where the person becomes incapacitated to manage his life, disoriented
and distressed. Every form of betrayal cause us suffering from despair and
agony. However, it makes us stronger in life ahead of us as soon we recover
ourselves from being cheated.
It would be better if
everyone supports their relationship to keep it private but not a secret. Once
the relationship is a secret, you should not be in it. Both must be proud that
they have each other. Though love cannot
be easily or generally defined, it should certainly revealed that the two
people are in relationship where both parties are committed.
